it's true. the heart has it's own mind. everyone,at some point,would have experienced this . i say this with utmost confidence because i have experienced it myself more than just once. it's frustrating to know that one doesn't really have control over something that belongs to them. often has lead me to think then how i can control something that's not even remotely mine. some say "follow your heart for it may lead you right". but is getting hurt and bruised mentally,sometimes even physically, part of being on the right track? as much as I'd love to say no over and over and over again,it's right. feeling pain , making mistakes and getting bruised are indeed and very much part of being on the right track. the people that we see in day to day life,the ones that have no regrets,the ones that smile without any limitations, the ones that breakdown and cry, the ones that go dormant when something is wrong or the ones that decide to party instead of hiding away,they're all people we see and know in at some point of our lives. and we know that they do what they do without any regret because that's what their heart tells them to pursue. no matter how hard we try to evade the control of the heart, at the end of the day, we fail.
many a times I've tried to be the controller of my heart but couldn't keep up for any longer for i couldn't find reasons as to why i shouldn't follow my heart. so what? i get hurt. but there's always something called "moving on" and it happens every time. at first i wasn't too sure if "moving on" phase would repeat itself the next time i fall hard. but considering the number of times I've fallen hard(too many times to be counting)i now know that that phase is just as inevitable as getting hurt. it's like a cycle. you get hurt,you get through it too.least somehow!
Pain is unbearable at the time it happens. but that's what makes you stronger. the heart becomes stronger! and that's what we must do with the heart that's ours. we must love. and if we should get hurt get because of the love, we must use that pain to change the heart into a stronger chamber of feelings. and making it stronger doesn't mean we lock ourselves from possible threats promising hurt. we become strong enough to be brave to take it as a challenge to even change the pain to something more positive. for what's life without a little pain?
A beautiful quote strikes my mind now.
true it is. heart wants what the mind knows is a challenge. but sometimes i wish the mind was as brave as the heart for the heart accepts failure to be a part of the journey called life.
life is short,as many of us know. and there's no time to regret . do what you want to do,with some conscience of course,for time is running out. never be too much of a coward to experience hurt or rejection or failure of any sort for those are not what bring you down but raise you higher as the days go by.
heart and mind seldom go in unison. but if they do, do whatever it is with flair and love and trust for you will emerge out of it in flamboyant colors or just simply as a stronger person!
many a times I've tried to be the controller of my heart but couldn't keep up for any longer for i couldn't find reasons as to why i shouldn't follow my heart. so what? i get hurt. but there's always something called "moving on" and it happens every time. at first i wasn't too sure if "moving on" phase would repeat itself the next time i fall hard. but considering the number of times I've fallen hard(too many times to be counting)i now know that that phase is just as inevitable as getting hurt. it's like a cycle. you get hurt,you get through it too.least somehow!
Pain is unbearable at the time it happens. but that's what makes you stronger. the heart becomes stronger! and that's what we must do with the heart that's ours. we must love. and if we should get hurt get because of the love, we must use that pain to change the heart into a stronger chamber of feelings. and making it stronger doesn't mean we lock ourselves from possible threats promising hurt. we become strong enough to be brave to take it as a challenge to even change the pain to something more positive. for what's life without a little pain?
A beautiful quote strikes my mind now.
life is short,as many of us know. and there's no time to regret . do what you want to do,with some conscience of course,for time is running out. never be too much of a coward to experience hurt or rejection or failure of any sort for those are not what bring you down but raise you higher as the days go by.
heart and mind seldom go in unison. but if they do, do whatever it is with flair and love and trust for you will emerge out of it in flamboyant colors or just simply as a stronger person!
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